This is the most beautiful mosque π I saw today. Itβs a mosque in Kirsehir, Turkey. Built with inscribed Quranic verses to help remind people of paradise and add sense of tranquility to prayers.
Iβll visit there soon.
Kings.
Donβt make yourself too comfortable in a rental property.
Stop installing tiles, POP, etc in a rental unit.
Make friends with a young realtor, surveyor, lawyer, etc They usually know whatβs selling.
Find affordable land in a relatively established neighborhood. It doesnβt have to be a full plot. Even 1/4 plot is fine.
Start developing your own 2 or 3 bedroom bungalow.
This is just an advice and not a military edict so donβt come and bite my head off π
It's not that hard Madam. You can give the baby out to people who genuinely need one and they'll be happy the baby is around them everywhere they are.
By the way, why did you get married when you clearly don't know what motherhood is.
You had your first, you can call it a day, but, No, you had another, then you're complaining.
Do you actually know what you want?
I'm a Muslim mother. Most of my daughter's friends are non-Muslim White girls, and they practically live at my house.
They tell me they feel safe here. There's no alcohol, no drunk parents, home-cooked food, stability, and someone who actually listens to them.
To be honest, I know more about some of these girls than their own parents do.
Now, I'm not saying this is every family. It isn't. But there are pockets of the UK where family breakdown, absent parenting, substance abuse, and a lack of structure are having a real impact on young people.
What strikes me is that these girls don't reject boundaries, they crave them. They want guidance, consistency, and adults who are present in their lives.
As a Muslim, none of this is accidental. Islam teaches me that raising children is a responsibility, that parents should be present, that the home should be a place of safety, and that family life should be built on love, discipline, stability, and mutual respect.
For years, many traditional values have been dismissed as old-fashioned or oppressive. Yet I see young people actively seeking the very things those values provide: structure, belonging, accountability, and care.
Children don't just need freedom. They need guidance. They need adults who are invested in them.
Maybe part of the problem is that we've spent decades dismantling institutions, traditions, and family norms without asking what would replace them. From where I'm standing, a lot of young people are paying the price for that experiment.
@Big_marvis How would you listen to this man called Tinubu speaks and decided to choose Obi over him - Someone that can't bring his thoughts into words π€