Honestly modern friendship is transactional. If someone isn't helping you network, make money, or elevate your status, they are just a waste of your time fr.
Do not have sex with a woman without arousing her, I promise you, you’re not doing it well.
What to do:
1 - Play with her nipples, don’t press it hard, just rub it continuously and you’ll see how crazy hard it becomes.. they quickly become horny just by playing with their titties than pressing their breast.
2 - Rub her both thighs, massage her pussy gently, not finger, not clitoris, just the pussy front porch
3 - Do 1 and 2 continuous for few minutes all together, don’t rush, take your time.
4 - take your hand down to the pussy and confirm the wetness, put your finger deep into it and spread the slime (arousal fluid) all over her pussy, now you can penetrate.. if it’s doggy kiss her ass a little while she bends and spank it twice like a table tennis.
Not hard, just take your time. Sex no be do or die..