I cannot believe that I actually WON TAYLOR SWIFT tickets and get to take my best friend in the world!! This picture is from a Halloween party where we sang All Too Well 10 min version and made everyone watch the whole thing! Nov 23rd we will be singing along with Taylor herself!
Officially have my own office!! Cannot wait to start decorating and making it my own. I took a risk switching jobs and itโs paid off so quickly, Iโm so happy where my career is at rn
2023 had ups and downs but overall it did me well:
-my love moved in with me
-took a risk and ended up with a new amazing job
-took steps forward in my healing journey
-focused on building stronger bonds with my amazing friends
Okay living with my love is great and all but idk what possessed us to think weโd be fine sharing a double bed ๐ (when we also have three cats who want to sleep with us every night)
In fact idek if I like calling it being stagnant, I think itโs more needing rest time in-between healing and dealing with things bc itโs such a draining thing to do. My rest time was productive as rest always is and now Iโm ready to put in the work again
One thing rarely talked about in terms of healing from trauma is being stagnant. People of course talk about moving forward and moving backwards in healing is talked about more openly now which is great. But being stagnant in healing happens too
And itโs as much apart of the process as any other part. Iโve been stagnant in my healing for about two years, it took me a while to even notice that, and I was very embarrassed about my healing journey being so slow but the progress is moving again and Iโm so proud of myself
For the first time in my adult life Iโm about to have a job where I get every single weekend off and I cannot wait to be able to do absolutely nothing at all for most of them โบ๏ธ
Iโm gonna be starting a new job right before I turn 25 and my love is moving in with me just after I turn 25โฆ 25 is gonna be the year of changes for the better and I canโt wait
So how does a personโฆ
1) convince there bf to go see the Barbie movie AND
2) convince him that you should dress as Barbie and him as Ken to go see it โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ