unpopular opinion: pay your bills before you pay me. i have absolutely no interest in hearing your 'im broke now' sob stories. be a functional adult first, then be my atm. know the difference.
I hate subs who need constant monitoring. Youโre supposed to be making my life effortless and easy, not bothering me about which panties to wear to work.
A Dom had a conversation with one of my subs whoโs on the spectrum. he was direct, which she found rude, so she blew up and sent him nasty voice notes. She then came to me to โreport his behaviorsโ and Lie about the contents of her voice messages to him. When I calmly explained that his communication style is different, she ignored it, attacked me and him, blocked me, then came back calling me the r word and slurs. Apparently, if I validate his autism, I have to validate her bigotry too.
Dommes, not everything that feels disrespectful is. Sometimes itโs just different wiring. Quick judgment and ego ruin more than they protect.