I have seen some sections of Kalenjin women complaining that "Top Cream" ya Vijana wa nyumbani are getting married to wasichana wa Mlima and leaving them "exposed" to “low-value” men.
Achicha (hapana) Memo, no one has rejected you. You are the same people who rejected these men when they were in campus, na walikuwa wamekonda hadi mabega imeinuka juu. But kina Njeri, being smart, noticed their potential, married them wakiwa hivo, and nurtured them to where they are now.
But you, being who you are, want "Made Men" who are already established so that you can swoop down like an eagle and take the prize; mamuchokse (that won't happen).
The established men you salivate after are mostly married or irresponsible bad boys, and the only gift they will give you is a child before they disappear.
Wasichana wetu wa nyumbani, nothing comes easy, and there are no shortcuts to success—except maybe wash wash. Unless you change your attitude and leave your fantasy world, the "elites" kutoka nyumbani will continue marrying outside tribes.
Mutyo sana eng Tipik ap Ground!
Personal finance is mostly about managing the mindset: your emotions and behaviour; and less about the numbers.
How disciplined you are and the kind of mindset you have determine your financial success, not mathematical formulas.
MTT TIMES PART ONE.
During our schooling days pale Meteitei boys sneaking out of the school was very risky because shule Iko juu ya mlima then almost kila mahali Kwa fence imemea stinging nettle then down the gradient is where the school used to drain fresh sewer...