@RatCageRage@RoyalBrattyness I don't belive that engaging with findom self destructivly counts as a kink or dynamic, it would be feeding an addiction / compulsion at that point. Though most of the time it is like you say so I understand where your coming from
Lwk findom fell off it just doesnt hit the same
Used to get triggered by any dm now if it's not a good Dom I just laugh
Also doesn't help that 80% of dms are ai
Im complaining cause big doms won't look twice at $50, but to me its 50% of my paycheck after necessary expenses
@RoyalBrattyness@RatCageRage This is the kind of thing I would like to have.. I put aside a bit of my paycheck for her. every person I've talked to just wants to take all my money. I know its not going to happen online but Im mainly using it as a way to practice and learn for when I find a real dom
@iacksuju The whole reason I came online is because I have no social skills and want a place I can practice with less stressful situations. I'd like to get to know some irl dommes but its so difficult given that I live in a rural area with a small population. Thanks for the tips anyway
@mjtheeomegaxx Yeah I understand that.. having lots of time wasters and scammers to deal with must be frustrating and that's why you guys have dm fee & tributes, it just sucks for someone like me who wants to get to know the Dom before sending and have an actual relationship with them
@CloverKitCat Yeah, I understand why it is like this.
I wish it was like when I first started and the relationship with the Dom came before the money
But people had to go and ruin that and now you rightfully charge upfront