Around here, we don’t do “happy wife, happy home.” We do “happy couple, happy home.”
The husband’s happiness matters too. We’re not inheriting the silence of our fathers.
@sunnkssdseraph For truly open-minded persons, it opens a black hole of questions. It posits whether the principles and moral values I hold so dearly are truly objective or simply products of the geography and culture in which I was raised.
This is why you’ve got to give your kids names from your own language. Everyone has been talking about “Olise” for the last 24 hours. “Balogun” has been on the lips of Americans ever since he scored that brace. Imagine if their names were Jayson or one of those generic names people keep giving kids these days.
Resist the urge to call them Men of God. They are Pastors.
Pastor ≠ Man of God
Only God knows those that are His - 2 Tim 2:19. Know God for yourself. Follow Christ directly. Approach the Throne of Grace by yourself to obtain mercy and help whenever you need it - Heb 4:16
The other day i was arguing with someone about how books like 'Rich Dad, Poor Dad' are foolish to Nigerians at large.
One of the points i raised was that financial literacy cannot cover for systemic failures.
This is a prime example of the statement: “you cannot out-hustle a bad system.”
Imagine a loan was taken for this.
Ok. I'll be that girl who corrects you, because you all already hate me for speaking the truth anyways....
Most women actually desperately WANT to be that last lady holding the flowers. You've found a man who has game, experience and she's the LAST in that line, there's no one behind her. So he is loyal.
You're just trying to get back at men for doing the reverse of this because you're ashamed of your body count but the reality is that the same rules don't apply for men and women.
Sis to sis: stop lying to yourself.
I just saw a video of a farmer in Lagos that lost his investment of almost 20 million to the flood. He started the business with his friend and they lost everything just like that. All their birds and fishes gone. Her tears really broke my heart.💔🥺
It is painful when people who ought to know better are deliberately bent on keeping the masses in poverty and retrogression. You are educated up to Masters degree and live in developed society, you should know and do better. Your education and exposure is supposed to reflect in your thought process.
If you live abroad, it means you've been exposed to better. You know what a working system looks like. You know that quality education should be made compulsory and free to kids. You know that minimum wage should should get you your basic needs - including rent, clothing and feeding. You cannot be thousands of miles across the ocean pushing for policies that drives us deeper in poverty. Are you mad?
I've talked a lot about my life experiences and I'll restate. I went to secondary school with the privileged, and that exposure made me see what a good life was and made me want better for kids that grew up in the environment I grew up in, and for all disprivileged kids in the country. I went to UNIBEN and saw another side to life and realized comparatively that many Nigerian kids have their childhood and youth stolen from them through deliberate systemic poverty. It is not right! Having lived abroad, I lived the experience of a working system and wept for an entire generation of Nigerian youth that has been robbed of dignity of decent living. There is nothing special about the West. If they can do it, we can do it too. The Asians have done it. Other African countries have left us behind. The Nigerian people have to enjoy a decent life and a quality standard of living without having to leave home. We all deserve a better life at home.
As bad as South Africans are, they are evil to foreigners. You Nigerians are evil to your own people. How do you explain that you sit abroad supporting and promoting policies at home that keeps people in abject poverty and sink them further into a hole their generation will not be able to recover from. You are raising your kids to compete globally and take their seat at the tables of this world where countries you reside in are giving free education, preparing their kids for the world of tomorrow in Tech and AI, empowering their kids in STEM, giving millions of dollars in grabt for innovations. You want other people's kids to use your lunch money to start frying akara in 2026. Is that the plan you have for your own kids? The god you serve and the one you don't serve, will strike you mad.
If you are at home supporting this madness, you are not exempted because the whole point of your education is to know how to think. So fvcking think! Dem use poverty swear for you?
Z. Ibrahimovic career goals =520
Thierry Henry career goals= 417
Combined total= 937
Cristiano Ronaldo = 975
But these two clowns are trying to lecture Ronaldo on how to score goals🤣🤣 what a joke!