I help women create wealth & rise in their careers/business by becoming Iconic & building magnetic personal brands & thought leadership platforms. Podcast host
2. I don’t have time. No one has time, people who make things happen, make the time. If you don't make the time, you lose the time
3. If it doesn’t work the first time, it won't work for me. No. Do it again. Analyze the fail. Stop giving up too soon.
3 common myths that hold women back.
1. I have to be perfect first: first of all, you'll never be. Your imperfection can actually become part of your UVP and what sets you apart. So let this be the last year, this holds you back.
Every ending is another beginning.
How you end 2022 is how you'll begin 2023.
Will you end it by default & just make do?
Or will you end it by design? With intention, strategy & a growth mindset?
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Wealth is good, a resource.
NOT the source.
NOT our reason for being.
6, 7, 8 figures should be a byproduct of a life of impact, not our singular goal.
Are we being tempted to serve mammon without knowing?
Do we value people for their wealth?
Search our hearts Lord.
No.
Feel free to use it as needed.
It's just as powerful as yes.
They work hand in hand. In order to say yes to something, you often have to say No to something else.
An Iconic woman needs to know how and when to say No, and that she doesn't need to apologize for it.
Some people will find reasons to dislike you but the core reason is that they don't think you deserve the success you have.
Keep rising anyway. They'll be ok eventually and if not, it doesn't really matter.
When one door closes, just know there is another one open. Stop wasting time crying about the closed door or trying to force it open. Let it go. Use your energy to find the new better open door. It's there, you just have to "open" your eyes to see it.
It frustrates me that femininity/womanhood coaching is often reduced to trying to get, keep & even manipulate men.
Of course we live, work & love in concert with men, but Iconic Womanhood is about women having a successful life that feels more authentic & whole.
Q: Why do those who once supported you sometime start to hate on you?
A: People root for you to succeed but when you get past their own upper limits, you start to make them uncomfortable. Because they aren't self aware, they project on you.
@MindaHarts Unfortunately this is common. People root for you to succeed but when you get past their own upper limits, you start to make them uncomfortable. Most people are not self aware and project their blocks on others. @MindaHarts live your blackgirlluxury life! Let it stretch them 😉
@Luvvie Advice for entrepreneurs. Remember to live. Everything doesn't have to be monetized.
Don't become a sacrifice to the idol many people have created around entrepreneurship. Take your time and live while you work. Don't just work and hope to start living one day when you make it.
Gaslighting is also someone behaving in an abusive manner to you and then acting as if nothing happened and you are crazy and overreacting.
When people do this, understand that they know what they are doing. Recognize what it is and protect your mind & guard your heart.
When a toxic person can't control you, they attempt to control how other people see you.
As challenging as it is to hear lies and distortions said about you. Try not to engage, direct your energy and keep focused on the possibilities in your future not the poison in your past.
Some people will criticize you so they can feel superior or at least on your level.
They can't compete with you, so they try to tear you down.
Don't give them any energy.
Dogs may bark at the moon but you'll never see the moon turn to focus on the dog.