unpopular opinion: a lot of men don’t actually want sex... they want intimacy, but nobody taught them how to ask for it without it sounding weak. so it comes out as horniness. it’s easier to say ‘i want you’ than ‘i want to be seen, chosen, and safe with someone.’ that’s not shallow. that’s emotional illiteracy we pretend is desire
I told someone Arne Slot is not much different from Antonio Conte. Good in first season then you see the nonsense that comes us in the following seasons