When I was younger he was good (or at least how I remember it anyways) but over the years he has been drifting in a sort of way. He was always one for jokes, but he knew when to take things somewhat seriously.
If we were merpeople, you would have a graceful human torso and a graceful fish tail. But I'd just be a fish head on two legs running around. And I think that describes all relationship dynamics. (Please note at this point he stared at me s
Also, We were never financially well off, and my father had violent disputes with his own family over property which in turn affected all of us. I would often see my parents deal with one trouble after the other.