Professional Domina located in NYC,
Luciferian & Demonolatress, Lefthandpath follower, avid gamergirl, ancient history afficianado
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Having scallops and creme brûlée for lunch. 😌💕
He’s a good boy because he understands devotion isn’t occasional.
It’s consistent attention, consistent effort, and consistent providing.
You get back what you put into a D/s dynamic. As with anything in life; to reap the rewards of something you must have the right mindset, have consistency and dedication.
If you’re looking for something low effort, low cost, minimal time and commitment….this might not be the path for you.
We didn’t “lose” physical media.
We walked away from it.
The shops still exist. The discs, the vinyl, the collections, all still there waiting.
Streaming is easy.
Owning something is meaningful.
If you miss it… support it.
I have a co-worker who never announces anything. You don’t know she applied for a promotion until she’s already in the new office. You don’t realize she bought her own place until she casually mentions “heading home to finish painting.” She doesn’t post milestones. Doesn’t crowdsource opinions. Doesn’t invite commentary.
I used to think she was secretive. That success was supposed to be shared loudly. That excitement needed an audience.
Now I see it differently.
She moves with intention. Quiet. Focused. Certain. Her plans are protected while they’re still fragile. Her joy isn’t diluted by outside noise. She lets things grow roots before she shows the world the bloom.
It isn’t secrecy. It’s discernment. It’s peace. It’s self-trust.
Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who build their lives softly, without applause, and let their results speak when they’re ready.
My advice to girls in this industry is always put your career first. This is a lonely life, and at the end of the day sometimes it’s just you and your money, and it can feel like only your clients understand you most.
Don’t leave your opportunities for a dusty man who’s broke and will leave you because of your past anyways.
Don’t leave because you’re scared you can’t make friends. If they don’t understand you now they wouldn’t understand you if you weren’t a sex worker either.
If you’re lucky enough to find others in this industry who are kind and who treat you well, hold onto that, because that is gold.
Whatever your gripes may be about your cohorts, publicity keep a united front. If they’re coming for her they’re coming for you too.
You will always be judged. You will always be on the outskirts of society. But you will be on the outskirts of society counting your money. And if they’re not weaponizing sex work against you they’d weaponize your gender against you anyways.
Always, always put your money first.