Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪

Passionate about social injustice. Founder of the Norwegian association against psychological violence, Foreningen Mot Psykisk Vold. Writer.

[Parental Alienation @PAcumbria]

Narcissists don’t apologize, they reframe the story until your reaction looks worse than their behaviour.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

When people ask me "have I been subjected to psychological violence," I usually know the answer before they tell me anything more.
It's the way they ask. The way they phrase the question says enough.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

@beatabooo 😂

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

They say everything had more colours before.

This is a picture of my grandmother visiting Kiel in the 60s.

[Ryan Daigler - Exposing Narcissistic Abuse 🚩🚩 @Ryan_Daigler]

Narcissists don’t choose their targets randomly. They’re looking for supply value — people who will give them admiration, attention, control, emotional reactions. And they’ve developed a predator’s instinct for finding the people most likely to provide it.
Empaths.
Caretakers.
High achievers.
Forgivers.
People in transition.
Those with strong moral codes.
They’re looking for a combination of high supply value and low perceived resistance. 🧵

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

One day we’ll realize how sick it was to trade the best years of our lives for pennies so a corporation could hit a quarterly target.
​We’ve normalized the exploitation of human time for corporate greed. I hope I’m here when we finally outgrow the "labor for others" era.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

You never get the truth out of a narcissist.

They only tell you what they need to say to make you do what they want you to do.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

@ahmed_adeel2k06 @incentivising Step one: get off your phone.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

This is also true after an abusive relationship 👇

[AI Panda @AIPandaX]

I told my therapist:

“I feel safest when I do everything alone.”

She didn’t even ask why.
She just looked at me gently and said:

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

Absolutely nothing. In 2016 I left. He said he would take everything from me, all my assets and the kids. In 2022 he succeeded. Unfortunately, my kids are not alone in this situation. This happens to more kids than people think. Thus I have to speak about it.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

Guess what the father of my kids answers if I ask if the kids should be in contact with their mother?

[Ryan Daigler - Exposing Narcissistic Abuse 🚩🚩 @Ryan_Daigler]

Narcissists have a radar for exceptionally happy, genuine, gifted, honest people. Their mission: seek and destroy.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

@theamelia__ Poison

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

"I have never met a child under the age of ten who was tortured at home and given the option, would not have chosen to stay with his or her family rather than being placed in a foster home" Bessel Van Der Kolk in "The Body Keeps the Score. This is what people don't understand

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

And the ultimate victory is to live a good life in spite of their hard work to ruin your life

[Ryan Daigler - Exposing Narcissistic Abuse 🚩🚩 @Ryan_Daigler]

What most people don’t understand is that for a malignant narcissist, the ultimate trophy is driving their victim to suicide.
Yes. You read that right.
They don’t just want control. They want total domination.
They want to erase you.
Your voice.
Your truth.
Your existence.
When a victim breaks down, isolates, loses hope, and takes their own life—it’s not seen as a tragedy by the narcissist.
It’s seen as a victory.
To them, it's proof that they won.
They’ll even turn your death into a performance.
Crocodile tears. Sympathy posts. Fake grief. A practiced speech.
But inside, they feel powerful. Accomplished. Safe from exposure.

So if you're reading this and you're struggling—please, don’t give them that.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

@NCAngieKay @DUKE_content @IanCarrollShow @grok is this list of un agenda 2030 with end of family unit real?

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

@nate_postlethwt Sometimes survivors of psychological violence tells me: "I appreciate your openness, but I can't talk about it because I need to put this behind me".

What I don't say, but always think: I hope for you that you one day start to talk about it.

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

@shadows_control Happy birthday yo your son 🎂🎉 I am so sorry to hear about your traumatic birth experience. Me and my first baby would have died if my ex had done this to me as I needed surgery. Post separation abuse is a nightmare 😢

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

Chinese mafia kept women as slaves to harvest and sell their eggs. This makes me think the life of a handmaid in a #handmaidstale is good compared to this. I fear this #humaneggfarm is not the last we will hear about. #fertilityrates
https://t.co/TR4Yd7IqiN via @MailOnline

[Elisabeth Hatlem🇳🇴🇸🇪 @Elisabethis]

@Edward_Blom Jag får en känsla av att du inte har så mycket kontakt med det vi i Norge kaller "folk flest" 😅 Jag har läst allt detta, inkl Koranen, men har ingen aning om vad Gilgamessheposet är. Dock tror jag att om jag skulle uppskatta att 0.01% har läst allt detta är det optimistiskt.