I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who’s super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
Your MAN shouldn’t be talking to his ex, your ex, a woman who clearly likes him, a woman who used to like him, a woman he used to like, a woman who’s waiting for her turn, or a woman who disrespects you. This isn’t being toxic, this is called having BOUNDARIES.
Ignoring your woman’s needs and still expecting a healthy relationship is like skipping maintenance on your car and expecting it to run forever. Sooner or later, it breaks down.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
Unfortunately my last relationship completely changed me. So yes, I DO care about the people in your phone. Yes, I DO care about what you're doing when I’m not around. Yes, I DO care when you seem even slightly off. Yes, I DO care about things I wished I didn’t. And it’s not because I’m insecure, controlling, or trying to make your life difficult. It’s because I learned the hard way what it feels like to trust someone fully… and then be broken by them.
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control