Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦

Dismantling myths about sex, society, politics, spirituality, and polyamory. Editor for Sensual #SensualEnchant1 on Not looking to hook up!

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

When I first heard TTPD, it reminded me so much of Blue. A lot of guys felt uncomfortable with that album too.
#TaylorSwift #TTPD #JoniMitchell #essay
https://t.co/mDfG3z9r2y

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@ToniHargis 😸

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@DeluneDemeter Thanks for sharing❣️

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

It’s not that we don’t care about men and their very real problems, but frankly, we’ve got our hands full. It’s other men who must figure out how to mentor and assist the next generations.
https://t.co/vSRYDmFqAp #Men #Masculinity #society #equality #essay

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@DeluneDemeter Thanks 😘

[Sensual: An Erotic Life on Medium @SensualEnchant1]

If you aren’t actually all that close and don’t believe the other person wants what’s best for you as well as for themselves, why even bother? @ElleBeau
https://t.co/sfEdBFT3jx
#relationships #love #dating #marriage #intimacy #trust #CNM #insecurity #jealousy

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

Yep!

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

Are you signed up for Medium Day? There are going to be a lot of interesting forums and discussions. I'll be participating in the Fourth Wave one. Check it out..
https://t.co/5XnsmXIRIk
#Medium #feminism #women #conversation

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@ask_aubry The main reason that this tall, nice looking man is still single... #uglyinside

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

Just got what I consider to be a great compliment, although I think it was only half meant that way. "Reading you is the literary equivalent of eating a ghost pepper." I absolutely aspire to be unflinching and to burn away the bullshit while adding some flavor. 🌶️ I'll take it!

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@ask_aubry Girls as young as 8 can sometimes can get their periods. Yet another example of men who don't know anything about female bodies trying to make rules about them. 🙄

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

For the most part, incels don’t truly view women as people, and they aren’t looking to have meaningful reciprocal relationships. They want the “goods” that society has promised them as men, and they are upset at being shortchanged on that.
https://t.co/4dxxlnhU5u #incels #men

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@DamianDelune Thanks for sharing!

[Damian Delune @DamianDelune]

“It’s been noted by 40 years of research into how ‘traditional’ gender norms harm men, that masculinity in this culture is something that must be constantly performed. You can’t just be a man; you have to demonstrate it constantly” —@ellebeau
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[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@kylben I have absolutely no idea what you mean by any of that.

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

And those who yammer on the most about their individualism seem to be the ones who are most held in the sway of other people’s rules and opinions.
https://t.co/SZQkw3xylc #Self #individualism #hierarchy #society #socialnorms #essay

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@YaelWolfeHowls And if you were a single mom, he probably would have judged for that. I think you're right, it's clearly not working for him.

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

There are a lot of good men out there — both on Medium and in the real world. But sometimes they get overshadowed by the ones who are loudly making things worse for us all.
https://t.co/IA5vx9QGKC #men #ThisHappenedToMe #society #Medium #online #appreciation #essay

[Elle Beau (She/Her) 🇺🇦 @ElleBeau]

@ask_aubry Anyone who asks this is a terrible lover.

[Sensual: An Erotic Life on Medium @SensualEnchant1]

Most women who are out and about aren’t looking for love, or even s3x — they are just looking to go about their day without being hassled, harassed, or bothered by strangers. @ElleBeau
https://t.co/iPEEgxL1m1 #Dating #DatingAdvice #men #relationships #essay