normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”
my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
Study the men who quit alcohol, quit chasing women and quit explaining.
The loudest comeback isn't revenge. It's becoming unavailable to the habits that nearly buried you.
Stop telling people to get married just because their age mates are already married.
Even you, some of your age mates have died, but nobody is asking you to die 😏