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Too much too soon is pressure and can sabotage love with a high quality man.
A couple of months ago one of my beautiful clients got married in a gorgeous wedding.
She got to walk down the aisle into the arms of the man she is completely in love with-
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"Expressing your heart" and controlling people and outcomes are not the same thing.
Women often say, "But I was just telling him how I felt"....nope you were controlling the heck out of the situation and expecting him to cow to that.
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How do I stay open-hearted but retain strong boundaries?
We have recently received this question and I want to address it today.
When we are showing up like doormats- all of our attention is on people-pleasing, walking on eggshells, not expressing ourselves authentically.
Can we drive a car without first turning on the ignition? If we don’t turn the ignition on is the car “testing” us or just being a car? The universe does not test us.
**Masculinity Heals a Woman's Heart**
I talk about how profoundly healing a man's masculinity is for a woman.
The painful question of: "The men don't have this....they do not have our backs, I must have this, we must become the men they aren't."
I heard a woman the other day saying something along the lines of, "why she had to do so much "work" and why men didn't?"
And this is when as a coach we see the wounded girl leading and making demands of the world that the world will never meet.
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Low Value Responses from an EX aka. A toxic ex is back, what do you do?
We have high rate of success in helping women get their exes back and there is nothing I love more than seeing a woman shift into her Feminine Goddess and watch just how fast her love life turns around.
The Bad Ex Trap
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On the path to finding love, when you know what you are doing and are in your full power, you transmute rejection into an understanding that you are only looking for the right fit for you and so is everyone else.
Nothing is more amazing than helping women find their Soulmate at any age-
This client of mine came to me with an entire life track record of dating men that had major issues, were not masculine in their energy and in her words...
Do Men Lose Interest If You Have Sex With Them Too Early On?
We've seen people debate this all around with their theories, yet we know what actually works from working and coaching hundreds (and now thousands) of men.
When I unpack the dating process women went through with their exes, it becomes so clear that they became too attached, too early.
Their attachment got in the way of their genuine and authentic emotional connection, leading to the man feeling more and more unseen and disconnected
I'm often told by women how "glamorous" what I do seems to them, and my answer is always the same, "I am a very high performer who has succeeded at everything I've done, this is the hardest thing I've done. It is hard. There is NO glamour, there is only service and hard work.
There is no better feeling than being self determining in your life-instead of life happening to you, you are owning and leading your life like a Queen that is deeply and richly blessed and loved.
You wake up and spend time in a way that fulfills you
I recently came across an article on the escort industry and found it very interesting. This is what I read-->
Women who are in the escort business and routinely have men pay them for sex, repeatedly share the same truths they discover in men.
Janeth, our client, came to us single and is now blissfully married to her Soulmate. When she came to us, she was ashamed and embarrassed by the fact that she hadn't had a real relationship in almost 7 years. Her family, although well intentioned, had been giving her a hard time.
One of the most important things in healing marriages on the edge of divorce-
Is the acknowledgment of the pain one partner caused the other.
If even one partner minimizes the pain they caused- justifies it, rationalizes, tell the other they drove them to do it.
A woman with options has power. And an empowered woman tends to intimidate insecure men (little boys) just like an empowered man tends to intimidate insecure little girls. I want to mine our wise community today- and ask you what the truth is here....
When we don't take time to go within and FEEL what your soul needs felt and seen, we are constantly seeking someone or something on the outside of us to help us soothe and process and feel what we are needing to feel and to see us.