@Wizarab10 If she knows you’re not financially comfortable and still chooses to stay, support you, and grow with you, then you know she genuinely cares about you. You don’t always have to explain everything - sometimes, your actions will speak for you.
@Wizarab10 Not bad or weak to be honest about your financial situation, especially if you’re trying to build something genuine with someone. But personally, I don’t think U need to announce that you’re broke. Women are observant; with time, she’ll know from how U live & what you can afford.
@jon_d_doe We’re told to call everyone by their first name. It’s company policy or U will be queried.
So I was calling my boss “sir” & “boss.” He came to my desk & said, “Call me Nick, & don’t use D ‘sir’ prefix,”
Bcos I was brought up in a cultured home, I should disobey company policy?
@jon_d_doe The funny thing is, any day he refuses to cook, she feels he doesn’t love her anymore. 😂
Don’t start what you can’t finish. Or have an open conversation with her, tell her how much you lover her, but sometimes you cook simply bcos you care or feel like it, not as proof of love.
@Wizarab10 If you you are reading this, please reach out let me tell her husband if you can't. We need to free that innocent man.
As for you, stand at the ftont of a mirror naked and flog your dick with a cane and keep saying “don't put me for trouble". It helps. 🌚
@Wizarab10 If I were D groom, I wouldn’t cancel D wedding. I would have a serious talk with her about our finances, expectations & how we handle disagreements b4 getting married.
Sometimes, D argument itself isn’t D problem; how two people handle D argument is what reveals D real problem.
@Wizarab10 D issue for me is not really D ₦1m. It’s how they handled D disagreement. Marriage will come with bigger disagreements about money, family, responsibilities & priorities. If they couldn’t calmly resolve this, there may be a deeper communication problem that they need to address.
@AdaNnaYa2626@ChuksEricE Some people in D comments are just dmb & stpid, sha. She’s right. They weren’t supposed to let D man leave without paying bcos he invited her & called D server to take her order.
It’s the same way a waiter brings the bill to whoever ordered the drinks when friends are at a bar.
@Wizarab10 Most are D*mb & st**pod
How are we even sure that she's not lying.
See what I think happened: she lied to him that she was a virgin, she realized he's serious & intentionally caused issue & they broke up, then came back together & she claimed that a random guy defiled her. 🤷♂️
@jon_d_doe Maybe, but I’m over 35, and I don’t do 50/50.
But you must be working, regardless of how much you earn. I don’t want someone who’s completely dependent on me. Earn your own income to buy little things for yourself & support your family too, even if I’m also helping them.
@Flostickz@jon_d_doe That's not good enough for me. I need a legit sign. The gym is just the next street to her house. Mine is also a walking distance but N200 from her house.. So hers is more convenient and I won't blame her for that. 😅
@BrightEnob29853@jon_d_doe At all. I don't have issues with that. She only need to get caught and she will definitely get caught, then moooove. No stress.