Emily McQueen 💙

Assistant Service Manager for Women's Services. Mummy to one. Spurs through and through.

[Billie @Billie_T]

Coldest picture of the World Cup and it’s not close

[OnsOranje @OnsOranje]

JP & Micky in defense 😎🇳🇱

Congrats on signing for @SpursOfficial 🤍

#NothingLikeOranje #FIFAWorldCup

[AD @AD48828231]

This cunt on commentary going ya heart goes out to the arsenal fans. Does it fuck the cunts have cheated all season and got away with it. I’m absolutely fucking delighted that scum club ain’t won it

[Central @WestHam_Central]

RT IF YOU SUPPORT A LONDON CLUB AND HAVE WON A EUROPEAN TROPHY

[Emily McQueen 💙 @Emilyvillar]

Poetic justice #PSG

[The Source™ @SecretPrem]

We don’t just show up when we’re winning. We’re here through the lows. A proper fanbase. That’s the difference.

COYS

[HotspurReports. @hotspurreports]

Whatever happens tomorrow.

Tottenham til I die.

[Hotspur Lane @HotspurLane]

The officiating against #THFC is actually beyond a joke now. Every week rules change just for us.

It’s gone past the point of just bad luck with officials each week. I fully believe there’s an agenda to send us down.

The club need to stand up for themselves and call out these unjust decisions week in week out.

[Jay Darkmoore @JayDarkmoore]

I have seen a lot of posts and videos in relation to the new MAFS BBC Panorama documentary, essentially asking why, if women were being mistreated on the show by their partners, they didn’t just leave.

I was a police officer for many years, specialising in cases of domestic abuse and abusive patterns of behaviour.

I thought we had got past victim blaming in relation to domestic abuse?

People don’t leave abusive relationships, even short-term ones, for a variety of reasons.

The person is not abusive 100% of the time. When they are kind and compassionate, it can become intoxicating, especially in contrast to when they are awful. This makes victims crave the good parts, and they are conditioned to believe that the bad parts are their fault. This makes them want to “try harder” and “be better” for their abuser, because the good times become the reward.

There is also the fact that abusers can be scary, and they can play serious mental games with a victim. The victim literally may not understand that they are being abused.

The victim may fear that they will not be believed, or that the abuser will create a smear campaign against them, making them out to be the bad one, and trying to ruin their life and/or reputation.

Abusers deny that they have done anything wrong when called out, and are masters at turning the tables on their victims, convincing them that they are the abusers, not them. This is called DARVO: deny, attack, reverse victim and offender.

Throw in a reality TV show with cameras, the promise of fame, and the impact of leaving a show and the reputational costs this can have depending on what is aired in your absence, and it creates the perfect scenario for abuse to breed, go unchallenged, and for victims to feel trapped with someone who is hurting them.

Instead of asking ‘why don’t they leave?’ we need to ask ‘why does the abuser act like this?’

@Rachel_SUTDA

[Tottenham Tiers @TottenhamTiers]

Absolutely comical.

How many times would this be given vs #Tottenham? West Ham just been allowed to play basketball in the box all season long.

[Tottenham Tiers @TottenhamTiers]

This season has (rightfully) been defined by poor #Tottenham performances, but the officiating against Spurs has been nothing short of abhorrent. I genuinely can’t remember the last fair call—it honestly feels like they’re trying to send us down.

[HotspurReports. @hotspurreports]

ALEX SCOTT. Proper Tottenham.

[Jamie Ohara @Mrjamieohara1]

The owners deserve this, disgrace of a season in every way, disgusting performances, disgusting recruitment, disgusting running of a football club, January window we signed absolute garbage. This is the worst I’ve ever seen this football club

[™ 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 @TottenhamMasky]

Being a Tottenham fan

[Tottenham Tiers @TottenhamTiers]

Unreal.

@thfcflags 👏

[Jay @iamsanjaypatel]

I’m with Abbi.

#COYS #THFC

[Emily McQueen 💙 @Emilyvillar]

@virginmedia any ideas what's going on with sky sports coverage? Haven't had a steady picture or sound for the last 10 minutes?

[Tottenham Talk @Talking_spurss]

#thfc

Funny that it was ok for Liverpool to throw away a lead in a “cup final” against palace and lose on pens.

But spurs do it against the best team on the planet and it’s “spursy” and it’s a “bottle”

Interesting that isn’t it.

[Women of The Lane @WomenOfTheLane]

We call on clubs, leagues and governing bodies to act now: adopt a No Fault Stand Down policy when players face serious and credible allegations

Survivors deserve better