Modern relationships are becoming trauma competitions. Everyone wants to prove they were hurt more, nobody wants to admit how they contributed to the damage. Love cannot survive when accountability is always someone else’s job.
Some people don’t even know how to enjoy something without posting it.
The dinner needs a picture.
The vacation needs a story.
The relationship needs an announcement.
At some point, you have to ask yourself: are you living, or are you just showing people that you’re living?
My deepest respect goes to the men building their lives with no safety net. No rich parents. No wealthy siblings. No powerful friends. Just him, waking up every day, figuring it out, carrying the pressure and refusing to quit.
Men hate disrespect more than they love sex. You can deny a man sex and he may stay. Make him feel disrespected, especially by the woman he loves, and you can lose him completely.
Wednesday Career talk:
A first degree is not a job title and a second qualification need not stay in the same field.
You can study Psychology then computing, or study Engineering then finance, or perhaps Education then cybersecurity. These combinations are not confusion. They are distinction 👌🏾
The world is hiring people who can move across disciplines, not people waiting for a vacancy that matches the name on one certificate.
Make sure you build a unique stack and then offer it where it is needed.
#CareerWednesday
[READ] In a series of letters, through their lawyer, Crime intelligence boss Dumisani Khumalo and maj-gen Nozipho Madondo are seeking formal confirmation/clarity from the NPA about the claim by IDAC head adv Andrea Johnson at the #MadlangaCommission that she has recused herself of matters involving the pair since June this year. Johnson told the inquiry that all matters pertaining to Khumalo & Madondo are now being handled/overseen by adv Nicolette Bell.
Commissioner Khumalo defended the dignity of the black child with those questions. These people spent years accusing this multi certified and over qualified young lady of being a token hire. Of being a clerk from BMW.
Pardon the long video, you need to hear the whole engagement. I am more angry than I was yesterday. 😤😡 Commissioner Khumalo took Andrea Johnson through Brigadier Mokwele's QUALIFICATIONS which she had not seen up till now!!!
Khumalo: What suitable qualifications do you say Ms. Mokwele did not have when she was appointed to this position?
Johnson: I don't know her qualifications.
There was a 4 minute pause with her trying to find the documents and look at them.
Having seen the qualifications....
Khumalo: Why make a statement under oath to this Commission that she did not have qualifications?
She has withdrawn and apologized, but Brigadier Mokwele MUST SUE HER and she MUST BE FIRED!! What a shame! 😭
#MadlangaCommission