Lockin In doesn't mean you should lock yourself in, but rather, you should lock yourself into opportunities whenever and wherever they present themselves.
3weeks ago,
39 little children and 7teachers were kidnapped by terrorists in Oyo state. One of the teachers was brutally beheaded on video.
TILL NOW,
AS I TYPE THIS,
THE KIDS AND TEACHERS ARE STILL HELD IN TORTUROUS BONDAGE BY THE TERRORISTS.
3days ago,
The sister of an ex-minister and her twin kids were kidnapped. And within 3days, the security forces have secured their release.
The kidnapped children of the poor, some of them 2year olds and 3year olds, are languishing in a terrorist hellhole for the last 3weeks with no hope of a rescue but within 3days the kidnapped children of an ex minister got released by govt forces.
Well, incase you need another reminder, YOUR LIFE, THE LIFE OF YOUR CHILDREN AND THE LIVES OF ALL YOUR LOVED ONES is absolutely worthless to this government. These incompetent heartless lunatics in power will watch them kidnapped, killed, beheaded and do absolutely nothing.
Your life means nothing to this govt.
Just incase you have forgotten.
How to Convert Masturbation into Money.
Masturbation is the perfect metaphor for how most Nigerians handle their potential.
It is private, pleasurable, produces nothing transferable and the moment it is over, you are exactly where you were before you started.
The energy, the focus, the dopamine, the drive that goes into that act is real biological capital. And like every form of capital in the hands of someone without a system, it gets spent on consumption instead of production.
Let me show you how to convert it.
Understand what masturbation actually is at its core. It is the brain seeking a reward without doing the work that earns the reward. It short circuits the effort-reward loop that nature designed to make you productive, creative, and socially valuable.
Every time you complete that loop artificially, you reduce your appetite for the real thing. Your hunger for achievement, for building, for pursuing something difficult and meaningful gets quietly sedated.
The man who is most dangerous in a market is the man who has not sedated that hunger.
The practical conversion is this.
That urge, when it arrives, carries with it a spike of energy, focus, and restlessness that your body generated for a purpose. It is biological fuel looking for a direction.
Redirect it immediately before the porn browser opens.
Stand up, Open your notes. Write the business idea you have been postponing. Record the content you have been too lazy to make. Send the pitch email sitting in your drafts for three weeks. Do the thing that makes you money.
You have approximately 11 to 20 minutes of that heightened state before it dissipates. That window is worth money if you know how to use it.
Now zoom out into the bigger picture.
The most productive men in history, artists, builders, warriors, writers, were not productive despite their sexual energy. They were productive because of it. They learned, accidentally or deliberately, to run that current through their work instead of releasing it into nothing.
Freud called it sublimation. Taoists called it conserving jing. Napoleon Hill called it sexual transmutation and dedicated an entire chapter to it in Think and Grow Rich, one of the bestselling books on wealth ever written.
Different cultures and centuries but same observation. The energy is real. The redirection is a choice. And the compounding of that choice over months is the difference between the man who has ideas and the man who builds things from them.
The practical daily system is simple.
When the urge arrives, do not fight it morally. Fighting it morally makes it stronger. Instead treat it as a notification. Your body just told you it has surplus energy available. Acknowledge it, then immediately assign that energy to the highest value task on your list before the moment passes.
Over time your brain begins to associate that state with productive output instead of consumption. The craving and the creative drive begin to occupy the same neurological space.
That rewiring is worth more than any course you will ever buy.
Every successful thing you want to build requires sustained desire. The desire to close the deal. The desire to finish the project. The desire to outlast the competition.
You cannot sustain desire if you are constantly releasing it into nothing.
The man who controls where his energy goes controls what his energy builds.
And in the world, where the environment will drain you from every direction, the person who has learned to generate, retain, and redirect their own internal drive is already ahead of 90% of the competition before they open their laptop.
Stop spending your sperm, start investing it.