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[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

He’s not getting free rent in your head anymore.

Most women make the same mistake after a man wastes their time. They try to make him pay.

The 2am text. The post they know he’ll see. The “accidental” run-in.

Every one of those moves costs you more time.

Let’s do the math.

1 hour a day thinking about him = 365 hours a year.
That’s 15 full days. Gone.

He got 3 years while you were together. Now he’s getting 2 weeks a year from you after he left.

And he’s not even asking for them. You’re not getting over him. You’re paying his bills.

So I wrote the book I wish someone had handed me:

How to Make a Man Who Wasted Your Time, Pay for Wasting Your Time.

The title is petty on purpose. What’s inside isn’t.

No slashed tires.
No ruined reputations.
No screenshots to his new girlfriend.

You’ll learn something worth more than revenge(Check out the table of content below).

Plus the 30-Day Payback Plan, one move a day, so you stop reading about your comeback and start living it.

Payback that needs him to cooperate will never come.

He may never apologize. He may never regret it. He may never even get it.

Payback that only needs you can start today.

You don’t need more time. You need a plan for the time you have left.

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That’s less than one dinner you paid for while he “got his life together.”

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

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[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

I like exercising without listening to music, or anything.

I enjoy the feeling of boredom.
I enjoy meditating.
I enjoy praying silently.
I enjoy listening to my thoughts.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

@BlessingsDigha My fine padi 🥰

[Qasim Rashid, Esq. @QasimRashid]

This piece is for men. Every time I write about how men systemically abuse women, my DMs explode with “Not All Men” complaints.

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[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

The concept of I better pass my neighbor Christianity is the reason why some Christians no longer hold themselves accountable. They sin with impunity yet are obsessed with homosexuals.

Some even threaten to unalive them. Yet, the Bible says murder is a sin. They want to use a sin to cancel another sin.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

There is no small or big SIN.

SIN is SIN.

You can't be lying, engaging in pre-marital sex, infidelity, etc and then screaming at the roof top about homosexuality.

SIN is SIN, no matter the Bible verses you quote.

Your sin is not smaller than their sin. Remove the spec in your eye.

There is no I better pass my neighbor Christianity.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

@Thedorathybach I can imagine the back and shoulder pain. Congrats, on your first step 🥰.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

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[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

@AdewuyiRoseline Thank you for writing this for us.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

@seyedele I am telling you. Imagine correcting 10-25 people daily.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

I watched this movie because the writer tweeted about it. His tweet sounded like his pen installs memories, so I surrendered my consciousness to him.

This is the first Youtube movie I didn't have to fast forward this year. It was Interesting. Unpredictable. Homely. @theteniola and @tayearimoro delivered their roles as usual. Other Actors also honored their craft.

The lover girl in me also liked how it ended.

Congrats to everyone who contributed to this captivating story.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

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If you need it, please holla at me.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

I scored 91% in one of my assignments and wondered why. Then I remembered that I didn't put in my best. I submitted it when I was tired.

Not every time 100% or 99%. Sometimes, 91%. Especially when you didn't work for the 100%.

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

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[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

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[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

YOUR CHILD CAN GET STRAIGHT A's AND STILL STRUGGLE IN LIFE because the school system teaches Math's. English. Literature. Social studies and all the good stuff not how to handle rejection, anger, disappointment, peer pressure etc.

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