Girl to girl: If you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards you, you will remain a safe place for their worst behaviour.
Honestly, this is why I always say love is a gamble. You can give someone your time, loyalty, patience, and everything you have, and still wake up one day to discover that you’re no longer part of the future they want.
I’m okay with being single, but I can’t wait to meet someone who genuinely wants to know about my day, my feelings, and my thoughts. Someone who communicates, listens and shows up. The bare minimum has become a luxury. Real is rare. ❤️
At this point, please don’t even shoot your shot at me. I’m fucking tired. 😭 Everybody wants to flirt, everybody wants access, but when it’s time to communicate and be consistent, now everybody confused. I’m not signing up to be somebody’s emotional detective. If you don’t know what you want, leave me tf alone. Gang, why is dating starting to feel like unpaid labor? 😂
I’m in a weird space right now. I want to move forward with somebody, but I also feel like this season of my life is supposed to be about ME. I’m tired of getting comfortable with people just to end up disappointed. And I know everybody isn’t out to hurt me, but damn, I want to experience letting somebody in without having to recover from it afterward. Is that too much to ask?