This Banyana Banyana loss is not surprising to be honest. We’ve reached the ceiling under coach Desiree a long time ago, it has been a decline ever since.
The Federation failed to do succession planning and now we find ourselves here. Bafana Bafana are on the same path.
girls.... pleaseeeee pick the gentle one. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence.
How do people go weeks, even days, without seeing or speaking to the humans they created? I genuinely can’t wrap my head around it. Every family situation is different, but choosing to be completely absent from your child’s life is something I’ll never understand.
for the first time in my life, i love myself more than anyone else. there's no room for self-abandonment or neglect anymore. the tides change, and so do i.
I hate that we've taught people, men in particular, that if we like them enough, we'll inconvenience ourselves regularly for them.
Because I am not going to do that.