I'm just a girl who wants to be: Happy. A Counsellor. A great Friend. Lover of cars and food. A good dancer. I just want to see more mentally healthy Men π
Allow me introduce you to Men Also Feel.
This is a service that hopes to enable men acknowledge their vulnerability and allows them discuss what they are dealing with in their lives anonymously without the fear of being judged or harshly criticised.
#men#mentalhealth
Relationship tip:
Make your relationship a safe space where both of you can honestly say, Iβm upset with you, without fear of being dismissed, attacked, or misunderstood.
When anger is expressed calmly and received with understanding instead of defensiveness, it doesnβt just strengthen the relationship it teaches both partners healthier ways to handle emotions, communicate, and grow together.
Something that exists in the corporate world that should not, is 'parapo-ing'. Why must you know me and I be kissing your arse for me to get productivity out of you? For job that you employed to do ooo πππ
Ear piercing that didn't go bad but warranted three injections and a full blown dose of antibiotics... If this is not overzealousness, I don't know what is o...
My HMO go don hear am now.
You kept emphasizing she loves gift but it never occured to you to do it. You KNOW! It is not like you don't know. But you never take it to heart(this is even worse). If you never remember her birthday, is it valentine or anniversary you want to remember?
How in God's name do you need Google calender to remember your own wife's birthday? This is criminally insane. There is no think piece around it. Even if your enemy live with you in the same house, you will know their birthday before the 3rd year.
You're married to her but you're not her husband. You don't love her.
Me: I need to wake up at so so time
Him: Do you want me to be your alarm?
Me: I have an alarm on my phone, duh π
Him: I was just offering to wake you up..
Na why I single be this. I've become too self sufficient that I can't relate to all dem cheesy stuff no more. God abeg π€²
If you have access, use it
If you're born into money, use it
If you are intelligent, use it
If you have the right education, use it
If na street OT, use it
If it is the network you have, use it
If all you have are stories of sapa, use it too!
Use everything to your advantage
I contracted a carpenter to do some work for me and he mentioned sleeping in my house.
I, female, stay alone. Him, male, stranger, paid for his service, think it's okay to work in my house 2-3 days and sleep over!
Apparently, that's a general idea that they have. I'm bemused!
A meeting lasted for 9 hours yesterday and we were back on it by 9am this morning, took a break and we're back at it again!!!
First Saturday that I'm home in a while and I'm spending it inside meeting!!!