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“The less you say, the more your words matter”

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Those who have depth of a puddle will get lost in those who have depth of an ocean.

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We are bad men living among bad men; and only one thing can calm us — we must agree to go easy on one another

- Seneca

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could. It’s not about striving for perfection but about putting genuine effort into your actions. This approach helps you stay present, enjoy the process, and live with integrity, regardless of the outcome.

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Agreement #4

Always do your best

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This agreement encourages you to give your best effort in every situation, understanding that “your best” will vary depending on circumstances like your energy, health, or mood. By doing your best, you avoid self-judgment, regret, and guilt because you know you’ve given all you

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and communicate clearly, you reduce drama and improve relationships. It’s a reminder that most assumptions are based on fear or insecurity, and by letting them go, you create space for truth and understanding.

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Agreement #3

Don’t make assumptions

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This agreement focuses on avoiding misunderstandings and unnecessary conflict by not making assumptions about what others think, feel, or intend. Instead of filling in gaps with your own interpretations, Ruiz encourages asking questions and seeking clarity. When you stop assuming

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or flattered by praise. By understanding that everyone’s actions and words stem from their own internal world, you gain freedom from others’ opinions and avoid emotional reactions. This mindset fosters inner peace and self-confidence.

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Agreement #2

Don’t take anything personally

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This agreement emphasizes that nothing others say or do is truly about you—it’s a reflection of their own beliefs, experiences, and perceptions. When you take things personally, you make yourself vulnerable to unnecessary suffering, whether it’s through feeling hurt by criticism-

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You never use the word to gossip about yourself or to spread emotional poison by gossiping about other people.
You are the creator of your own life story. Always be aware of how you are using the word, and be impeccable with your word.

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Agreement #1

Be impeccable with your word

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Be impeccable with your word really means never use the power of the word against yourself. When you’re impeccable with your word, you never betray yourself.