To everyone so eager to cancel someone for a tattoo they got at age 22, a drunk text, a selfie they took in the middle of a mental health crisis:
Show us your laptop.
Show us your iCloud.
Open your entire digital life to your worst enemy. No context. No filter. No explanation.
You won’t.
You won’t because you know what I know. Any one of us, frozen at our worst moment, photographed in our lowest hour, looks like a monster. Looks like a stranger. Looks like someone who deserves to be cast out.
That is not who we are.
My mom and baby sister were killed in a car accident when I was just a kid. Cancer took my brother Beau, my best friend and my rock. I battled alcoholism. I battled addiction. I chose the coward’s way out more times than I can count.
For years I believed the defining chapters of my life were written by tragedy, loss, and shame.
I no longer believe that.
Pain can shape us. Loss can humble us. Failures can leave scars that never fully fade. But none of them have the authority to define us.
And it sure as hell ain’t the critic that counts.
That authority belongs to us alone-the person in the arena.
Every setback presents a choice. Play the victim, or cut the bullshit and take ownership for who we become next.
Life does not determine our character. It reveals it.
Again and again we are asked the same question. When shit happens, what next?
We are not defined by what happened to us. We are not defined by the worst photo, the worst text, the worst tattoo, the worst night. We are defined by the person we choose to become. And by the courage to choose that person, every single day.
So before you reach for the gavel - show us your laptop.
You won’t.
The whole world saw mine. And I am still here. Still becoming. Still choosing. Still standing.
That is the only definition that matters.
My complete beginner guide is finally here if you’re interested! :3
It’s my exact home workout split and meal plan down to the calorie. It can all be done at home with a set of dumbbells and body weight!
I haven’t stepped into a gym in well over 10 years and I lost 40 pounds with this exact routine <3
To be super clear, fitness information is available online for free, and I don’t want anyone to feel pressured to buy this. This is mainly for people who want my exact routine, structure, and more in depth support that I can’t offer to everyone through DMs.
Thank you all for your support :3
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conservatives when you tell them chromosomes only determine sex because they regulate what hormones your body produces, so therefore going on hrt quite literally changes your sex
i read the article
group of men approached, called her slurs and assaulted her
she drew a pistol with the safety on and finger off the trigger to scare them off
she is facing aggravated assault charges, the men got charged with nothing
self defense is illegal for minorities
@hiimadvil Live twins is my favorite and its so fun, and is good with other architypes like unchained, sprights, and Fiendsmith. It got me into yugioh and I love how they work so much
Mikanko is my 2nd favorite and it's such a funny deck to play with