@Theholisticpsyc I love the language of the false self and the authentic self. Richard Rohr (Franciscan Monk) speaks of this frequently. And the journey to the authentic self can be hard but it is a road we all hopefully will walk at some point. The world needs all of us!
@Theholisticpsyc I see this in sport all the time. Trash talk to opponents or make fun of teammates. Big problem in sport. As a coach, I try to address this frequently, but see it modelled by coaches as well.
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@CECoaching_ 1. Let them know you love them…all the time. 2. Have an assistant who speaks to your child during practices and games. 3. Challenge them when they ask for it, not when you want to. 4. Do not talk about results, ever…only process. 5. It’s JUST a sport. Keep it in context.
@Doug_Lemov@LukeGromer@DanAbrahams77@dan10mcfarland@SefuBernard Pre-game: One skill/team goal we want to focus on. One thing we want to do to take them out of their rhythm/strength. Half time (or for volleyball - between sets) we refresh/evaluate how we celebrate what we have done well and how we can adapt to be even better.
Feel safe to make mistakes. This makes sense to me. I’ve been a part of teams for over 40 years and the leaders who don’t fret over mistakes made me want to try harder.
"Google’s five-year study on highly productive teams... found that psychological safety—team members feeling safe to take risks and be vulnerable in front of each other—was 'far and away the most important of the five dynamics that set successful teams apart.'"
— @BreneBrown