When a man catches you cheating on him, directly or indirectly.
Directly: Seeing you in bed with another man.
Indirectly: Seeing the chats where you told the man, "I had to go shower immediately. Your sperms were dripping out of me."
He weighs his options.
1. Has he invested so much with or in you?
If the answer is yes, he will force himself to forgive.
If the answer is no, he will force himself to create an "illusion" of forgiveness.
2. Are you just some babe he hoped to have a future with?
If yes, then you've become a "plaything."
If not, you've signed permission for your "body and time" to be wasted.
Now, the constant is that in either of the situations, you've created a BEAST.
1. You've given an automatic licence to him cheating on your forever.
2. You've opened the door to different kinds of abuse (physical, emotional, mental, psychological, and social)
3. You've signed up for your time to be wasted. Trust me, he'd take it.
4. Your body will be used as experimental grounds for drugs, different deteriorating sexual styles, and fetishism.
There are more torturous doors you've opened up for your man the moment he catches you cheating.
Now, cheating is wrong, and you'd argue, "But the men think women enjoy it." It's hypocritical, isn't it?
We are all hypocrites, but we must speak the language we both understand for continued coexistence and survival. Women cheat, but we know that when we talk about DNA.
None of us are innocent. So, for our relationships to thrive, there should be two main principles to be maintained.
1. The delusional belief by the woman that her man will always have the power to cheat.
2. The delusional belief by the man that his woman will never cheat.
If these two principles cease the exist, the relationship is likely doomed for failure.
Ladies, cheating goes both ways. The consequences don't. So, don't get caught and run when you are caught. Don't ask for forgiveness, please.
On Wednesday, I led the Principal Officers of the 10th Senate to a meeting with our President, Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu GCFR and to formally congratulate him on his emergence as the Chairman of ECOWAS.
I presided over today's Plenary after Sallah break.
At the resumed sitting of the Senate, Principal Officers were elected for the Senate with Senator Opeyemi Bamidele, emerging the Leader of the Senate, Senator Dave Umahi; Deputy Senate Leader, Senator Ali Ndume;..