in the Ghanaian and Nigerian settings i keep finding that the child is expected to learn the parent deeply whereas the parents can ignore who their child is and claim successful parenting because of the type of material scarifies they are systematically forced into.
Hmmn solid take but does it really?
Or am I the only the one who gets pissed.
I literally followed you for makeup and skincare. I don't want to be seeing your oga.
Whilst I understand people’s reservations/objections regarding Jola’s comments.
People using this as a rebuttal are unserious please.
1. These people weren’t posting or following each other on socials for the longest time. Relationship was on an IYKYK level. Nobody was “quick to claim anybody.”
2. He literally did not convert his page to a couple’s content page ?? His page is still very much his football things and she’s doing her thing too.
It’s not making your point, unfortunately.
Because SURPRISE SURPRISE, women and girls actually hate dating and marrying older men, and it’s overwhelmingly in countries where women and girls are sooo poor that they have no choice but to pair with old men
In countries where women and girls have money, they go for AGE MATES
This one is a very unique problem ohhh!
Your sister died in FEBRUARY and by June you’re kissing and are in love with her husband????
If you won’t listen to your fellow women, at least listen to Ayanfe and stop this please 😭
You bring old sexy photos of a grieving woman that just lost her husband and biggest support system and tag it “new photos” just to set her up because of Elon money.
God will punish you.
“We’re tired, we’re no longer scar£d of you, it will n0t be w£ll with you, your son Seyi is going to Ojude Oba while our own children is suff£ring inside bush”
Aggr!eved Mother rain very heavy cur s£s on T!nubu this morning while prot£st!ng 🙆🏼♂️💔
Come online to call your staff illiterates, the actual people doing the labour for what you are selling and you think i’d patronize you again? God forbid bad thing.
If truly you’re a girl behind this account, I want better for you.
These ideas you have about what you need to do as a girl to get a husband are because you’re poor and hopeless.
I want a Nigeria where you can just live your life in comfort without strategising how to get a man
Oh I definitely agree. And from working hospitality I can tell you that it's mostly younger women and younger queer men doing this. Everytime someone has been left behind at my spot it's been someone under 25. Older groups will make sure they take their friend and if they call a ride someone will follow the person home.
I can't think of a single instant where an older person has gotten drunk and been left by their friends but I can think of multiple times with younger people.
I hate how this poor man is being videoed and has to be eloquent and respectful in his grief. I hate how the community members have to gather to host govt officials. I hate everything about this.
You people should stop doing stuff like this. If you must go, inform a parent. If you can’t tell them, stay put. You will not die, it will not be the last one.
I tweet for me boo 😭 Twitter for the OGs was basically a diary. We wasn’t sitting around chasing engagement . You just had a thought, tweeted it, and kept scrolling. If somebody saw it, cool. If they didn’t, oh well 😂 Twitter originally wasn’t even about likes like that. It was just people broadcasting their random ass thoughts into the universe.
Two people came back from school. Only one person was tasked with making soup for the family. The other wasn’t even expected to help carry plates, or assist in any way.
This is how entitled men are raised. They grow up believing domestic work is a woman’s responsibility, so they can sit at home or return from work hours before their wife and still expect her to come home and cook because it’s not their duty