@ars_ludicra@leslonniee@the_moral_abc Well, no, I say it isn’t “real”because it doesn’t materially affect men. At least not to the degree misogyny does to women. My life has never been made worse by “misandry”
@ars_ludicra@leslonniee@the_moral_abc Yeah that sucks. I can’t find it but someone pointed out stan twitter gay guys calling rival faction popstars ugly as an example which is nasty
@leslonniee@the_moral_abc Like imagine someone saying they found Jacob Elordi hot and a straight guy jumps in like “I am NOT attracted to him, I am STRAIGHT”. You’d be like …ok?
@leslonniee@the_moral_abc I agree gay men are far more misogynistic than lesbians are “misandrist” (not a real thing imo). I just don’t see gay guys QRTing people talking about how attractive a woman is just to say they aren’t attracted to that woman. Seems like only lesbians do that and I don’t get why.
@the_moral_abc I’m being 100% earnest I’d love to hear from a lesbian if they think I’m right about this even though I probably seem like an asshole for psychoanalyzing an entire sexuality. I am sorry lesbians I will leave you to your QRTs calling men mid
@the_moral_abc I think lesbian women probably face the most outside doubt/scrutiny regarding their sexuality (“you just haven’t found the right guy”) than anyone else so this is a sort of lesbian cultural signifier/reaffirming of their sexuality? “Performative” is probably reductive but not off
@the_moral_abc Laughing thinking about an ace person with a lesbian’s posting brain with 40 million tweets because they’re QRTing every picture they see of another human being saying “erm…I do NOT find them attractive”
@the_moral_abc Nothing wrong with not finding him attractive btw, I don’t either. I’m genuinely trying to understand and I don’t mean this as an insult but this seems to be mostly an online lesbian thing. Do straight post about how they don’t find other guys attractive?
@the_moral_abc can’t even imagine the most evil gay man in the world QRTing a video of a woman saying “I am NOT attracted to her” like…yeah? Seems to be an entirely online lesbian cultural signifier thing but I could be wrong
@the_moral_abc I ask in earnest so apologies if this offends, but why do lesbians feel the need to tell people they don’t find men attractive? Do gay guys call women ugly? Like I believe you that you don’t find this guy attractive but it feels performative
@Toxoplamosis@anti_realism_ “JD Vance will campaign on breaking the United States up with Israel in 2028.” You willing to bet on that? How’s $500 sound?
@MarcGoldwein@souljagoyteller Nope. If you live in a state where your electoral votes are essentially guaranteed your vote for president doesn’t matter at all because of EC
Fantano is a bad critic first and foremost because of the format. Video reviews of albums are for people who don’t really like music at all. Print has every advantage