Your ex-girlfriend will find a new man.
She'll fall in love with him and be happy.
But she'll get mad at you when she finds out you have a more attractive girl and a more exciting life.
Level up.
Get a haircut every 2 weeks to stay sharp, wait 5 secs before answering the phone to control the rhythm, always arrive 15 mins early, stay away from free lunches, never talk about people who aren't in the room, and when anger rises, wait 10 mins before reacting. These habits may look rigid, but they're the hidden discipline of the elite.
To those dealing with heartbreak:
She's not f*cking special.
There are women out there who are prettier, smarter, younger, and better-natured than the girl you convinced yourself you "can't live without."
Your brain is lying to you because you're hurting.
The obsession will fade.
The pain will pass.
Stay f*cking strong.
There is one interesting thing I have learned about relationships: the way a couple argues can tell you a lot about the health of their relationship.
I once came across John Gottman’s research on couples, where he identified four particularly destructive communication patterns, which he called the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling.
Arguing itself is not the problem. Couples will disagree. You can love someone deeply and still get angry with them.
The real issue is how you behave when you are angry.
“I’m upset about what you did” is very different from “You are a useless person.”
One addresses the behaviour. The other attacks the person.
Learning how to disagree without insulting, humiliating, dismissing or emotionally punishing your partner is one of the most underrated relationship skills.
You don't need a relationship where you never fight. You need a relationship where you can fight without destroying each other.
And this could be a regular guy in the street that you decide to have a confrontation with. Or having a girlfriend ophaphayo now you're up against this nigga as a corporate dude who can barely climb a flight of stairs without catching your breath
as a man, i can’t even argue with this.
there’s something about coming home after a long day, eating good food, knowing your woman respects you, and having a peaceful home to return to.
you start realizing how little you actually need to feel loved.
Your parents sent you to school as a young girl so that you can be useful to yourself and the society.
Not for you to dump your certificates, then start looking for a man to feed you in the name of "I am in a relationship".
And even when you get married, you still need to prove to your husband that you didn't go to school in vain.
It should reflect in your conduct and the conduct of the children that you have with him.
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When a married man brags about his wealth, it's mostly because he knows his wife worships him for his money.
When a married man brags about his children, it's mostly because he knows that he's married to a woman who doesn't worship his money.
How good your children turn out, will mostly depend on the woman that you married.
If your wife worships your money, she'll please you more than pleasing the children, and would always cover up for their wrong doings, so you don't start blaming her for it despite how much you spend or invest.
If she doesn't worship your money, she'll always want you to instill discipline and ensure that the children follow your lead, even if it comes at a great discomfort to her.
End.
If I’m having a tough conversation with you, it’s because I want u in my life & want you to tighten up so I can keep u in it. I’m not attacking you.
Signs you are very compatible with a woman and should marry her:
1. You are peaceful together.
2. She respects you even when she’s angry.
3. You want the same kind of family and future
4. She supports your vision
5. You can talk about money without turning it into a war
6. Attraction is still there after you have seen her ordinary days
7. She brings out the better version of you.
8. Her values match yours on loyalty, children, and faith
9. You trust her when you are not around
10. Life feels lighter with her.
If you find such a woman just marry her.
Chemistry can trick you but compatibility keeps a marriage standing.
A particular student used this jazz on a female Corp member in Osun state a few years ago, and he got her pr3gn@nt before she came back to her s3nse, it was all over the news.
This particular charm is called "Àmúdo",
I wouldn't come here to say this if I hadn't seen it work before, my first experience was when I was in secondary school at Urban Day Grammar School, Old Ife Road. A guy from school 1 used it on another female student of school 2, they had s3x on many occasions before she came back to her senses, it was a serious issue that school authority had to step in.
If you attended public school, you'll know jazz like this exists. There's another type of jazz called "òkígbẹ" that if you use it and they hit you with sharp objects like cutlasses, you won't feel anything. I've seen it work when public schools used to fight inter school fights.
A lot of you who didn't even attend rugged public schools or get exposed to stuff like this will come here to deny that this jazz doesn't work. LMFAO!