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Good Morning Lovelies.❤️
Thank you so much for the prayers ,messages and support.
I am overwhelmed with the love and I am still thinking if I deserve this .🥹
We are opening on JUNE 15 and I can’t wait to have you all .
I don’t like to dabble in conversations about whether Muslim women can be feminists or not. It’s one conversation that is very unlikely to see me engage in. I’m not a Muslim feminist the same way I am not a Muslim lawyer or a Muslim capitalist. I’m a Muslim who is a feminist.
These rights that women have to be educated, to go to school, to vote, to work and be paid, to not be child brides were not gotten on the basis of religion. So saying that women don’t need feminism because religion gives rights is not very honest, because men can and have taken these rights from women. Religion existed side by side with the slave trade. I don’t think many of you understand. There are still places where women don’t even have these rights. I cannot afford to be on the internet, with the education I have today, speaking from a position that women before me fought for, and pretend that these things just happened by luck or that feminism played no role in securing them.
I understand that being a religious woman who is a feminist may mean that I will be a hypocrite because there are areas of my faith that I believe in and practise that can be against some practices of feminism, but I can live with that but to say that I have to denounce feminism as a religious woman? Not possible. Not today. Not tomorrow. Not ever.
I told Amiyah, we might be homeless next month.
Amiyah: Wait, what? Why? What do you mean?
Me: I don't want to work anymore. No work, no money for rent. No money for rent, we get kicked out. So…
Her: Oh, where will you live then?
Me: You? You mean us? You mean where are we going to live?
Her: Oh no, I mean you. I'm going to Grandma's.
This girl has consistently shown that if it’s not a soft, easy life, she wants no part of it.
I asked one of my married friends (though older) this question after I visited him and his wife in their UK home. We’ve also been friends since 2010. He said the followings.
“Well, we fight, we fight very well, because fighting is inevitable, but in our fight, every single time we’ve had fight, we still remain lovers, we remain kind. Non of our fight no matter how tough surpass our kindness for each other.
The next one is, we consider everyone after both of us as third parties, especially our parents and siblings, we started dating during our remedial program in 2012, and till today, I’ve never discussed her wrong doings with my parent or siblings before, I am sure she never did too, the only person I’ve discussed our matter with was her twins sister, they love each other so much and it’s just one time and that was even before we got married. So literally in our 14yrs of togetherness, we both have never discussed our issue with anyone. And nobody has ever helped us settle fight.
Hmm, next one is sex, you’ll not have it every time, understand this and it’ll help you navigate your sexual life better. I get tired on some days, she get tired on some days too, both of you should understand that you’re human and tiredness is inevitable. And as a man especially, if your wife is not someone that deny you sex, please don’t force sex on her any day she said no, don’t get me wrong o, even if she deny you sex often too, don’t force sex 😂 but what I’m saying is, if she’s someone who tends to your sexual needs, anyday she said she’s not interested out of tiredness, let her be, you can do cuddles, kisses and other foreplay if she want. Because if it get to a point a woman is having sex with you just so you can be pleased or not angry, trust me you’ll lose her in sexual aspect. Don’t be boring in bed too, try sexual activities that is in line with your religion and belief.
Being a parent and being a couple are two different things. Our marriage shakes a lot when we gave birth to Ahmad, my wife forgot me totally, no time for me again, we had to go for counselling before it gets better. So make sure you both understand parenting and its concept before you start giving birth, in fact if there is anytime our marriage had problems, it was when we gave birth to Ahmad because we both are new to parenting.
Another one is no raising of voice and no raising of hands, no matter how mad we are at each other, non of us is raising voice at the other person and non is raising hands to hit the other person. We also don’t use foul words during fights. Also during our fight, we don’t sleep separate rooms, we sleep on same bed, under same duvet in fact. We set this rules specially on our wedding night.
Another thing is, yesterday fight doesn’t stop today’s love. I’m someone who keep malice if we have unfinished fight, but my wife isn’t like that. I remember one day we had fight a serious one, I was at fault, and the following morning, after prayer, she rested on my laps, for few mins I was like who’s doing this one but I can’t even push her away, then she wake up and prepared my favourite food, prepared my lunch box and still continue fighting. She did everything that she’ll do when we are not fighting. The only thing we don’t do during fighting is s*x, every other thing we do it, that it’ll be as though as we are not fighting.
We don’t argue in front of our kids, or anyone else. During last year Eid for example, her mother asked if we’ve ever had a fight because she never see us fight and we never report each other to her before . You can never catch us fighting.
There is nothing like 50/50. We bring our hundred to the table. And there is nothing like someone’s money is their money and someone’s money is family money. Everyone money that comes to the family belong to the family.”
A thread 🧵
Amiyah lost a tooth yesterday and came to me saying, “Daddy, I just lost a tooth!”
“Oh wow! Are you okay, babe?”
“Yes, I am. I wonder how much I’ll get from the Tooth Fairy.”
“Oh yes… I wonder how much.”
Amiyah looked me straight in the eyes and said, “Daddy, I know you’re the Tooth Fairy.”
Me: ………
Amiyah: “Are you going to say something, Mr. Tooth Fairy?”
“Fine. How did you know?”
“Daddy… I’m 11 years old.”
Me: ………
Amiyah: “But can I still get like $5 for my tooth?”
Me: “Wait! what??? The Tooth Fairy doesn’t exist to you anymore, and you still want $5 for your tooth?”
Her: 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 can you do a pretend tooth fairy?
Me: as how???!! You know what? let me think about it.
I will not give her that money and nothing is going to happen. Anybody that want to fight me should come and fight me. 😏
I’ve always loved romance books, poems, movies, soft nonsense, dramatic nonsense, unrealistic nonsense if love is involved, count me in. Love makes me happy, giddy, hopeful. I enjoy watching people fall in love, even when it’s chaotic, dramatic, or completely unrealistic.
Now, when it comes to Bridgerton, the first season the one that ushered us into that world was honestly magical. Daphne and Simon were the pacesetters. Their chemistry, their tension, their slow burn, their healing it was beautiful. It set the standard.
Then came Anthony and Kate and honestly? A little Underwhelming. The slow burn dragged, the emotional payoff wasn’t hitting, and the magic just wasn’t magicing the way it should have.
Then came Queen Charlotte, and wow Charlotte and George they gave us something deeper, something more emotional, something that stayed with you. Their love wasn’t just romantic; it was sacrificial, heartbreaking, enduring. That story had layers. It had weight. It had soul.
But after that something shifted. The magic didn’t hit the same. The romance didn’t feel as intentional, as immersive, as emotionally rich. It wasn’t bad it just wasn’t Bridgerton at its best. And when you’ve seen what the show is capable of, anything less feels noticeable.
I miss the kind of love stories that made your chest ache in the best way, the ones that felt timeless, poetic, and unforgettable. That’s the Bridgerton I fell in love with.