Men in love don't listen, and they always get burnt.
Dave is seriously sick and needs a transplant. He was given three options, a family member, donor and and a helper. He insisted on his wife as his family, even when they advised him against it. Now Dave is stranded alone at the transplant location. His wife didn't board her flight, held back his donor and not picking calls. Now his family is running helter-skelter begging for connections to get his brother visa quickly to go meet him. He was warned because of the attitude his wife had displayed severally.
He didn't listen. Now he has put everyone into panic.
Coldness is not maturity, and cruelty is not strength. This generation has confused being detached with being powerful for far too long. There is already enough ugliness in the world. Care deeply. Love people. Teach what you know. Be kind without needing a reason. You can protect your heart without turning it to stone.
One of the biggest and best marketing companies in the world are from the US. Whatever they market, they make it sell.
The US has been able to convince the world that they are the best and that they are perfect. That’s the picture they have painted and sold.
This is why even in a country like South Korea, where things are working well, people are still not satisfied. They still want to go to the US.
You go to a country like Sweden, where if you’re not working, you still get paid. They take care of you. Yet again, people still want to go to America.
When you meet a lawyer, they will tell you that it is mostly women who file for divorce , and for very funny reasons too.
When you meet a banker, they will tell you that most men use their wives as next of kin, but women rarely do the same.
When you meet a doctor, they will advise you as a man to either marry a virgin or remain single. They will also tell you that apart from real health issues, women are always in complicated situations. That even when you help them solve the first one, they go back to repeat the same pattern, and still blame a man for all of it.
If you meet an on-air personality like myself, I will tell you that out of 10 marriages, only 1 or none of the women will speak good of their man.
It makes you wonder:are all men bad? Or are women just making bad choices and refusing to take responsibility? Or are women simply not satisfied with what they have, and not willing to join hands with the man to make things better?
Why is it always women?
I mean, for almost everything they clamour for, they have been given the opportunity ,no matter how small to join the train. And yet, most of them are still growing bitter and angrier.
As a man, you owe yourself and your offspring a good woman. They are not many, but they exist.
Modern women are not nice at all.
Don’t be a “nice man” to avoid destruction in the future.
Morgan Freeman was not wrong when he said, “Become a man who can face a breakup, lose a job, deal with debt, and still say, ‘God is with me. I’ll figure it out.’” That is the kind of faith and resilience a man must develop. Not the absence of hardship, but the refusal to surrender to it. Life will test your finances, your relationships, and your peace. Build a spirit that circumstances cannot easily break. A man grounded in God may bend under pressure, but he does not have to lose himself.