Dear Bestie:
Thank you for loving every version of me the messy one, the growing one, and the one still figuring life out. I appreciate you more than words can ever say.
Drop a โค๏ธ if you have one.
Girl to girl: If his love disappears when your money does, congratulationsโyou didnโt lose a man, you lost an expense. ๐๐ ๐ฝ Never confuse a gold digger with a partner.
Yep. I'm both.
The lover AND the leaver.
I'll love you deeply, forgive you genuinely, and fight like hell for us. But don't confuse my capacity to love with an inability to leave. I'm capable of both.
I'm extremely hyper-independent.
I've handled everything on my own for so long that survival mode became second nature. So yeah, it hits different when a man steps up, takes the lead, and makes me feel safe enough to rest.
I'm too grown, too mature & too classy to be [ checking phones, reading texts, or playing detective investigating a grown man. If your actions make me feel like I need to, you've already answered every question I had.
Unfortunately, I'm both.
The "come here, let me love on you" type... and the "never mind, 'll be okay alone" type.
So if I start pulling away understand I probably fought myself to stay first.
When they think you have men lined up... Meanwhile, you're secretly just a lover girl who hates dating and only wants one man who adores and babies you so you can forget everyone else exists.