A man’s surname will never really belong to you. The notion of tying your identity to a name that someone else can revoke at will is, to me, an absurd concept.
My aunt divorced her husband after 19 years of marriage.
He's remarried now, and suddenly he's demanding that she drop his last name.
Easy for him to say.
That name has been hers for over two decades. It's the name she built her career with. It's on her professional credentials, her work history, her bank accounts, her records, and countless documents accumulated over the years.
Changing a last name after 19 years isn't as simple as updating an instagram profile.
It's court paperwork.
Housemates gan.😅
“Eh… my perfume has finished again. I don’t like this nonsense that Tobi is doing… always using my stuff without permission.”
Me fuming on his behalf:
What’s the meaning of that nonsense? Tell him to stop, that you don’t like it!
Lai lai..
Na bro code.😹
Media framing is such a huge issue, because why is this framed as though the woman’s leaving mid argument is why this man killed his daughters? The media is a huge part of why society continues to blame women and girls for the violence of the average man.