Never sit around worried about what a man is doing behind your back cause you know exactly who you are and what you bring. If he wakes up one day and decide to move reckless, lie, cheat, or play himself out of something real, that’s on him
realizing that you’re incompatible with someone (because they don’t meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. look how much you’ve grown.