No one is forcing you to stay at that soul-crushing job,β yes they are.
The threat of rent, bills, and homelessness is extremely coercive. Stop pretending choice exists in this setup.
Hereβs the thing with obedience-centered parenting: it totally kneecaps your ability to be an adult. Totally. Adulthood requires a willingness to act upon and change states of affairs that the logic of obedience is totally opposed to