@mingizberry @bubbleshwa I'LL SAY IT THEN. the despicable, unholy matrimonial, shameful, can't be said aloud, mind-boggling, concerning, crazy, out of this world things I'd let this man do to me is unreal I want this man to choke me soo hard that the arteries in my neck burst and my vocal chords shatter
Erika Kirk holds multiple degrees & runs businesses, got married at 34, & had her first child at 35. However she wants YOU to abandon scholarship, get married & have babies in your early 20s and trust your husband to care for you.
None of the trad-wife spokeswomen are trad wives
Women shouldn’t be expected to give up their surnames after marriage. In fact, it makes far more sense for children to carry their mother’s surname.
A father contributes 50% of the genetic material, but 100% of the pregnancy, risk, labour, birth, and early survival of the child comes from the mother’s body. Her health, her blood, her organs, her hormones, her literal life on the line. If anyone’s legacy deserves to be carried forward, it is the person who creates, grows, births, and often raises the child. A husband’s surname isn’t inherently more “family” than a wife’s. It’s just a patriarchal custom that treats men as lineage and women as vessels. We don’t have to keep repeating it.