When you finally grow into the version of yourself you’ve always imagined, I hope you don’t forget the version of you that got you there. Be gentle with your old self, the one who endured, who tried, who kept going even when they didn’t know how.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
i really love making people uncomfortable when they realize i can be soft and sweet and still hold an unshakable boundary. sorry if you thought softness meant submission. it doesn’t