The most exhausting, unspoken burden on men in modern dating is that they are expected to be the sole architects of the relationship. A man is expected to initiate the first text, plan the dates, fund the experiences, orchestrate the proposal, and constantly drive the romance forward. We have completely normalized a culture where a woman’s mere presence is considered her "effort." The absolute second a man gets tired of being the only engine keeping the relationship moving and asks for equal romantic effort, he is instantly accused of being "inconsistent" or "low effort." We demand 50/50 modern equality, but aggressively enforce traditional male burdens the exact moment romance is involved.
@notcee_fan Finally!! I feel like the hype around her is mostly charity work to uplift black women rather actually appreciating her. Tyla is beautiful but the world ain’t hype her as much as Tems cuz tyla is lighter. Nothing against tems it’s just her “love” feels forced
@guzu_p Plus u can’t play the card: oh she doesn’t deserve my loyalty cuz she used to be promiscuous. Wtf, like you knew this before u picked her to be your wife so don’t try backpedal now; if it really bothers you then don’t wife her, Simple! - a woman value isn’t Just her body count
@guzu_p Do you know that people change, get old n that’s absolutely normal? Unless u expect your wife to look the same till she dies otherwise you gonna cheat on her for getting old or putting on weight after being pregnant of ur child (the irony) I really hope this is just for clicks
@maddie0700@hwals3on117@Aliceshaw25 Upbringing standards? “U act how you’re raised” look at how ur behaving🧐 Gettin triggered over a tweet from someone irrelevant in ur life . I shouldn’t have to teach you basic social IQ.Right?
@maddie0700@hwals3on117@Aliceshaw25 U don’t know me, yet ur name calling and spiraling 🤣 it’s not that deep it’s just the internet Queen. I’m far from triggered.
Unlike u, I don’t need to desperately namecall, blame upbringing to handle conflict. We strangers so anything u say about me won’t affect me at all
@maddie0700@hwals3on117@Aliceshaw25 That’s an ad hominem fallacy. Attacking someone’s character/family when u can’t address the argument isn’t a rebuttal🤣 u wanna talk about how I was raised when ur way of dealing with conflict is by personally attacking someone you’ve never met. Internet warriors🤡
@BANKSYDEGEN@Raindropsmedia1 Then she finna start complaint about her man being boring cuz nigga go bed early whilst she tryna go to the club. Then end up saying she’s miserable and that’s why she had to cheat