Real healing starts when u start facing what your nervous system is trying to tell you. It's raw.
It's uncomfortable. It's the moment your brain screams "don't go there" and you go there anyway. Facing this truth hurts, but it's the only way to actually get better.
Sometimes you arenโt holding on to the person. Youโre holding on to the idea of them.
Youโre in love with their potential.
Youโre in love with the fantasy of who they could be if they tried harder and if they just healed and stop being selfish.
@samzy_yt So I should start monitoring a grown adult just to prove my love or what ?
My peace should always come first.
At the end of the day people will do what they want