It takes discernment to unravel who’s there for the perks that comes with it (friendships, relationship et all). What you enable now becomes the expected standard in the long run. If the habit upsets the balance, it’s only fair to call it off as soon as possible.
With deep introspection into what I believe and do over and over, safe to say I’m an inveterate traditional man to the deserving. Roles were put in place to create balance.
A note to myself on my safe space on proven tips for balanced and lasting relationship with the opposite sex
• NEVER accept a cheating partner!!! No matter how much you love her. End that SHAM!!! Walk away from DISRESPECT!!! (RIGID)
• Be transparent about what you’re earning when you want to get married not before
• You’re not responsible for her lack of vision, lack of contentment, and greed. She should fix that herself
• Go all in when you’re sure this is what you want