someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more
can I ask you something?
do you like even wanna talk to me?
You send the shortest replies to me now, and you don't even bother to talk. do I annoy you or something? because if I am, please tell me so l stop wasting my time trying to get you to talk to me
no, im not okay. i wanna talk to you so bad. i miss you so fucking much rn. i miss our conversations. i miss how we used to talk everyday. i miss the way you treated me when we first started talking.
“how do you know it was love?”
because even after everything, it never turned into hate. i was hurt, disappointed, and had to let go, but deep down, i still couldn’t bring myself to hate you. maybe that’s how i knew it was real.
i’m not asking you to prioritize me all the time.
I just hope you remember that there's someone waiting for an update from you. It's not that I want to know your
every move just want to feel that I'm important in your life too
I told my therapist I tend to catch feelings way too quickly.
She handed me a journal and said,
“If someone’s attention gets you emotionally attached before you’ve had enough time to see whether they can actually give you the consistency you need, these 10 questions will help you understand why your heart may confuse emotional intensity with real connection.”
Here they are: 1/12
if you catch yourself BEGGING someone for... human decency? a response? time together? clarify? respect? some compassion? some kindness? you need to make a step back & realize you're begging someone for BARE MINIMUM. that's ridiculous beneath you. Fuck that shit.