Yall ever notice you dont fall in love with someone because of how perfect they are. We fall in love with someone because of what they been through, what mistakes they made, and the way they built themselves up. We admire the hard work and change they put into their life.
I cannot fuck with people who, when they're mad they say extremely hurtful things but when they calm down they want to backtrack and say they didn't mean it. Yes, you did. Stand in it.
I think some ppl forget that when you continue the same behavior it’s not the behavior in the end that hurts, it’s the fact that people genuinely believe that behavior could change but it hasn’t not for them atleast.
Unpopular opinion: I would rather struggle every day of my life financially providing for my child than take money from his father ever again. Change behavior is better than money to me.
They don’t make men like 90s men, just the clean cut diamond stud in the ears look. pretty boy aesthetic has been replaced w mfs that look just dusty dressing like mfs who have openly admitted they don’t brush they teeth every day! PLEASE someone ask morris chestnut how to dress
Maturing is realizing that when I say my mom raised a leader I mean she raised me to lead MYSELF to the right path not other people. I love giving advice if asked and being there for others but some people mistake a leadership mindset as a way to control others.