I like it when someone loves EVERYTHING about a big woman, not just the boobs and butt. The round face, the soft belly rolls, the full arms, the thick thighs. Like you gotta love meeeeee
I talk a lot about how I care about my subs and some seem to misunderstand that.
Yes. I do care. I’m a human being and I like connecting with people, talking and sharing things, BUT this is also my source of income, so I will not chit chat with you forever if there’s no money involved, especially if you treat me like a therapist.
Understand the difference and respect my time.
grown men in BDSM refusing to communicate properly, use safe words, discuss scenes, work out kinks (pun intended) etc… yikes. some of these subs need to have the basics drilled into their thick skulls before ever attempting to play. it’s not acceptable to behave this way.
A real dominant does not accept everyone. And a real submissive understands why. Questions are not interrogation. They are vital. You will be asked what you like. What you don't like. Where your limits lie, and whether there's any grey areas. This isn't about intrusion. It's about honesty. Ethical power exchange begins with self knowledge. And the moment you realise access isn't immediate, that attention must be earned. Something in your chest tightens in your chest, and you want to do anything to serve properly.