Even though I know y’all are gonna tune out once I start posting about spirituality & the chickens and rad blan come out, I’m liking the new faces on my timeline 🥰🥰🇭🇹🇭🇹
As someone who had sex in high school, there was actually no reason to have sex in high school- but thats a conclusion you have to come to on you own (and like i was in a relationship and inlove and all- still was no reason IMO)
@Univers0ul1__ But fake ppl have to be passive in the context I’m speaking on in my original tweet. It’s bout ppl who keep relationships for future benefit even when they know theyre not being sincere then try to encourage that same behavior in the next person who is ready to act on their truth
@heyyitsjanea Especially since they were treating Shuri well and hadn’t even killed the Boston girl yet.
Im sorry, but she freaked out & underestimated her daughter’s ability to carry her as a rep for Wakanda. She played stupid games & won stupid prizes by attacking them w. Out assessment.
@heyyitsjanea I just think the queen was not thinking with her diplomatic mind when she blew up.
Namor just showed up the night before w. A shell so you can summon him. Why not just call him yo parlay like normal royalty?
If Talokan really wanted to they could’ve washed Wakanda.
And another thing, I can speak on this because I used to be heavily opposed to therapy or seeking help, but I had to look in the mirror and grow up, it’s not about whether or not women care we as men have to show that we care about our own well being.
Too often Black people, particularly Black Women are forced to police themselves. Some of this is rooted in their own safety and also to avoid stereotypes of being angry. Praising restraint robs Black Women of a natural human emotion - anger. It's also dehumanizing. 2/2
Other people’s crisis’ are not about validating your need to feel like you did everything you could to save them. It’s hard to come to terms with that but I think it will help to not take things so personal.
If y’all are so concerned about your friends maybe you should invest in learning their love language & preferred coping methods & help them get to that.
Sometimes we project our anxieties on people already struggling to mentally center themselves. Their isolation is not about u
They say you should tell ppl when you’re having bad mental health days so that you’re not just ghosting them.. but if I say “hey sorry, I’m struggling today that’s why I’m not being responsive” no one is gonna be like “okay cool I’ll leave you alone” …it has the opposite effect.
Some like dpt (weighted blanket) , others maybe a hot bath, listening to music, or a stick to your ribs type of meal. If you’re not a trained mental health provider it’s probably best to stay in that lane instead of trying to be a pseudo therapist, doing more harm than good.
Though being single might get lonely at times. At least you can go to bed peacefully without worrying about getting cheated on, abused or disrespected.