NEWS || The Annual Ka’bah Washing Ceremony (Ghusl Ka’bah) will take place on 15 Muharram 1448, Tuesday, 30th June 2026, after Fajr prayers.
إن شاء الله
These same men from the older generation will marry a woman and impose a ‘no work, no school’ rule on her, only to later marry a young graduate with a career as their retirement plan.
No be today dem born us. We know this script.
Keeping women poor in marriage by preventing them from working or running a business, just so they can be controlled and manipulated, is an old trick.
Today’s women won’t let you get away with that. You’ll have to earn respect. Your money alone won’t buy it.
God damn Lewis is old as fuck 😭😭😭
Beat the two Ferrari champions that day, those two retired and now he’s fighting the 12 year old he met pre race😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Abuja is gradually becoming something else.
Last night, my brother was attacked in Wuse 2, around Polaminus Restaurant, near the junction before Wuse Market. He was simply walking along the roadside, looking for a ride, when some boys ambushed him, stabbed him in three different places, and robbed him of his iPhone and other belongings.
What is even more disturbing is that there were people around, yet no one came to his aid while the attack was happening.
We thank Allah that he survived, but this is a serious wake-up call for everyone.
Please be extra careful, especially when moving around at night. May Allah continue to protect us all.
“The issue of Terrorists celebrating sallah shouldn’t bother Nigerians, we are winning the war against terrorism” - General Abubakar Rabe in 2015.
Only to end up kidnapped & killed by terrorists 11 years later.
I hope Christopher Musa is watching.
He was the second born in a family of 10 and the only one doing well financially. He wasn't just taking care of himself; he was feeding his older brother and his brother's family too. Almost every phone call he received was from a family member asking for one thing or another.
I sat back and thought about it. If I married him, his responsibilities would only increase. And if one day he could no longer meet everyone's needs the way he does now, wouldn't I be labeled the "bad wife" who came and stopped him from helping his family?
Women always shouting “zan rufa wa mijina asiri” should please marry all these men being exposed online and the ones awaiting exposure too. Since una sabi cover nonsense, take them all. 😌
The rest of us don’t want to mistakenly marry them and become the villains for speaking up
The Kiswah of the Holy Ka’bah! 🕋
• 825kg of natural silk
• 120kg of gold thread
• 60kg of silver thread
• 410kg of Raw cotton
• The cost of Kiswah is more than 25 million riyals.
🚨 | Fred Vasseur: “Every Tuesday Lewis was at the factory, ready to start again and keep pushing.”
“When a seven-time world champion continues to work this hard, it becomes a huge source of motivation for everyone working in Maranello.”
In 2018, while working as a community mobiliser on a sexual and reproductive health and rights project in Kano State, we regularly engaged women in rural communities. During one of those sessions, a woman said to us:
“Malama, don Allah, kamar yadda kuke tara mata kuna koya mana abubuwa, don Allah ku dinga tara mazajenmu kuna nuna musu muhimmancin zuwa asibiti da neman magani. Saboda sau da yawa za ki ga muna fama da infection ko sanyi. Idan mun je asibiti an ba mu magani, ana ce mana mu gaya wa mazajenmu su zo su karɓi magani, saboda idan mun warke su ba su warke ba, za su iya sake sa mana cutar. Amma mazajenmu sai su ƙi zuwa asibiti, su ce wai muna tona musu asiri. Wani ma zai iya sakin matarsa saboda ta gaya masa ya je asibiti. Ita kuma idan an sake ta, wani lokacin samun wani mijin yana zama da wahala, saboda ana cewa ba ta iya rufa wa mijinta asiri.”
In translation, she was saying:
“Please, just as you gather women and educate us, we would appreciate it if you also engaged our husbands and taught them the importance of going to the hospital and receiving treatment for sexually transmitted infections. Many times, we suffer from infections and, when we go to the hospital, we are treated and advised to bring our husbands for treatment too, because if we recover while they remain untreated, they may infect us again. But when we ask our husbands to go to the hospital, some become offended and accuse us of exposing their shame. In some cases, a man may even divorce his wife for asking him to seek treatment. A woman divorced under such circumstances may also struggle to remarry because she becomes stigmatised and accused of being unable to conceal her husband’s shame.”
This was in 2018, and in 2026, you are promoting the dangerous idea that a “good wife” is one who hears but pretends not to hear, sees but pretends not to see and remains silent regardless of what her husband does, all in the name of preserving the dignity of marriage.
Who raised you guys to think like this?
Since when did “matar rufin asiri” come to mean a woman who must ignore persistent betrayal, silence herself and protect a grown man from the consequences of his own choices? Do you not realise that protecting the privacy of a marriage is not the same as concealing misconduct or tolerating repeated infidelity or sacrificing one’s dignity, health and peace to preserve a man’s public image.
Islam does not normalise zina or present infidelity as an ordinary male weakness that women must tolerate. It, in contrast, treats sexual immorality as a grave offence. So what makes anyone think it is acceptable to normalise cheating, or gaslight women into enabling wayward partners who behave as though infidelity is their birthright, and then condemn every woman who chooses to walk away because she cannot continue living with a man alleged to be a chronic womaniser?
Why should the responsibility for a man’s discipline, loyalty and sexual conduct be transferred to his wife? Why should she be praised for pretending not to see what threatens her emotional and physical well-being, while he is excused from accountability?
Please do not use this mindset to raise your daughters, whether you have them now or may have them in the future. This thinking is one of the reasons many women are suffering and dying in silence, are repeatedly infected with life-threatening sexually transmitted infections because they are taught that their chastity is synonymous with overlooking their husband’s inadequacies. You’re suggesting women should remain trapped in harmful marriages because society tells them that marriage is “for better or worse” and that a woman’s virtue is measured by how much humiliation, betrayal and danger she can endure without speaking.
A woman who truly loves you and wants the best for you in both worlds would never turn deaf ears or a blind eye to wrongdoing by pretending not to see it.
Ka je ka nema ilimi.