I’m apparently shunned in my family bcz one of my great aunts said “aren’t you nervous for your husband to watch the kids all day?” I said, “no? I didn’t marry a fckn loser” apparently that upset alot of the women in my family who did in fact, marry losers who can’t even watch their own kids.
Anyways, what yall doing for the holidays?
You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.
Growing up hearing “Wikipedia isn't a valid source” and then entering a workplace where people say “just ask ChatGPT” is a surprisingly strange timeline
The wildest part about POVERTY is how much time it steals. Waiting for buses. Calling assistance offices. Comparing grocery prices. Fighting insurance. Sitting at laundromats. Being poor is a second job nobody pays you for.
the neurodivergent obsession with trying to figure out why someone did what they did. replaying it. analyzing it. asking your friends. asking your therapist. asking your friends again. because your brain literally cannot accept that some people are just cruel for no reason.
And then dude is all "does this mean I can smash other people or nah?"
Like bro wtf.
Also during their conversation he said "y'know I'm a feminist. It's why I let you pay all the bills" and then Janine looks at the camera like 'is he fr?'
Also Tariq has a career development and has to move to New York and expects his gf (Janine) to also move with him is unreal. Like wdym you're not even gonna talk about it.
Then she says no and says they should take a break.
as a dancer who has worked on her flexibility for years, i swear by these. getting flexible really doesn’t have to be a scary complicated thing, it can be quite simple. do this everyday for 3-6 months and your connective tissue will melt in on itself.
I miss astro so I'm gonna read my birthchart. I also decided to use the whole signs system bc idk I'm still like a beginner ish. And hopefully this makes more sense for me.
Here's my chart. (Whole signs vs Placidus) (But we're talking abt whole signs here ok)
heard a girl say that when she feels stuck, she imagines herself at 85yrs old & gets a chance to come back to her younger body for a day. suddenly, everything feels like magic again. the walk, the coffee, the music, the sunlight. live like today is the miracle it actually is!!!