I don’t care what you did in previous relationships. I’ll give grace and space for you to show up different with me. But if you cheat on me! I’ll just say that’s who you are as a person. Someone so insecure that they need external validation regardless of if the relationship is in good or bad spaces. A relationship is to be respected unless both parties said “we not together”.
AFTERCARE can look like:
- cuddling & pillow talks
- cleaning each other up
- watching a movie together
- rubbing each other’s backs
- showering or taking a bath together
- offering your partner water or snacks
- words of affirmation like “that was awesome”
- chatting about what you enjoyed and what you’d like to try next time.