@DaveyHert Everytime I come here just to see the account of the guy who changed his life from not very good to Frontend Engineer, just to remind myself that I can do it too. I tried once and failed, and hope to try again.
@venom1s I don't think this is about Rihanna not wanting to spend her money in the family. I think it's ASAP Rocky wanting to take and maintain his place in the family. Split bills, you splits leadership, authority and respect too.
@ElohoJohnsonn You want someone to tell you what not to do so you can not do it. You want to blame your parents later in life when you don't get married and you are 51. That is the only reason why you would want your parents to validate your wishes. Otherwise you would just choose your poison.
@Moonlight_myths My father tried, once back in early 2010's lasted only two years, but their relationship with mom went south forever. Today, he sleeps alone in the house he built for the other woman.
@BlessedGirl001 I am not married yet, but I think people develop that habit from the relationships they keep from teens through their youth. When you are a boy, life is easy. It's easy to pretend that you are not hurting because there is not much to hurt. The problem begins when problems grow.
@Cobratate Very true. I was surprised when an old friend let a job slip his hand on 31st night afew days because he wanted to do it after the new year.
@Emarged It's not African women thing. Anyone who wants to rely on someone to save them from poverty. Lazy people who want to prey on hardworking men for survival. Parasites. Don't matter the skin colour
@Kabugo_ All those things you count don't break anyone from being broke. If that's you on the profile picture, you need serious adult education. You are a potential disaster to your society.